What Is Hating??

You know, there is something on my mind that I think we all need to really discuss. It has truly become an epidemic now that people are all “haters” these days. And just to show how serious I am, Im not going to use any slang in this blog.

It seems so often now that everyone is being titled a “hater”. You could not like the way someone is dressed, you could not like the way someone is speaking, you could not agree with someone’s opinion and you are automatically titled a “hater”. Even if it just your own personal opinion.

By definition, (from what I have gathered) a “hater” is someone who is envious over said persons. One who shows extreme discontent from an illogical or ludicrous stand point.

If this is indeed the case, I will go there with you. BUT….what I do not understand, is the idea that everyone is claimed as a hater when an opinion is voiced.

Lets play test for a second. Read the following serenio and tell me the best course of action for John Doe to assume.

(Scenario 1)
If John Doe asked me if I liked his shirt. (He is wearing a red South Pole shirt, button down with some heavy awkward design pattern on the front. I don’t generally like South Pole) So I tell John Doe, Im not a big fan of South Pole, the design on the front is a bit much for me.

Should John Doe
(A) Assume that Im a “hater” cause I secretly wished it was me that had the shirt
OR
(B) Assume that I simply do not like South Pole, but that I do still like him as a person

If your answer was (B) to listed scenario, then you passed. If your answer was (A) then maybe you’re the reason that im typing this blog.

Luckily I have not been able to find myself in this type of situation so I cant recall any experiences first hand. But I do want to know, why are people so quick to say that someone is “hating on them.” Why not just say that someone don’t agree with you on that matter, I mean wouldn’t that be more logical than to assume that he is “hating” on you?

Iuno…You tell me.

Im Jus Saying....

I mean, I dont kno what 2 make of this, but my bestfriend told me about this vid and I jus HAD to look it up.
He wouldnt tell me what it was about so imagine my surprise when I looked at it for tha first time. lol
I jus dont kno where ANY of this came from. I mean this kinda video could not have been approved by management. lol
And he could have not ever thought that this "grind" would be sumthin that tha ladys would like....im jus sayn.